Do you take yourself very seriously?
Don’t, actually, nobody else does.
We usually think other people “see us” as we see ourselves.
The truth is, every person who knows you has a different impression of you and their perspective could be totally opposite to yours, therefore, their “image” of you could be completely different to your own.
I believe we all know someone who seems to live in a very “isolated bubble”, especially, regarding to the energy they “send out” to the world.
I know a person who believes he is very handsome, humble, loved and liked by all his community. If you ask him, everybody adore him, respect him and admire him. According to him, everybody is his friend, especially famous and powerful people and he loves to brag about his photographs with them, with his family and friends.
Although it is true that we should not be concern of what others think about ourselves. We should be very careful not to assume, we are everybody’s cup of tea either.
Of course, we all know deep inside our heart, who we really are. Some admit it and accept it, others just pretend it is not true. But as human beings, it is our right and duty to become a better edition of ourselves.
We are here to become stronger, wiser, happier and to share this human experience with other souls who are here to become a higher version of themselves as well, by transiting their own individual path.
Of course, we all have free will, we can do whatever we please. But we need to keep in mind that there are consequences of each and every one of our acts.