I am not a very social person. It is not that I do not love to meet new people, on the contrary, I love to meet new people but what I do not like is big crowds.
I like to focus on a small group of people so we can get to know each other well and I can give these new friends proper attention. But when you have to meet many people at the same time is when I usually exit the stage left.
Do not get me wrong, I am not really antisocial, (well, not very much.) But I believe every person I meet is like a new window that allows you to see new scenery, new thoughts, new experiences and so on. Continue reading →
Lately I have been finding different cases of people who are scared of being with themselves because their families think they are getting paranoiac or anti-social.
The excess of use of technology is causing many people to believe that having a quiet and reserved behaviour far from the crowds and/or common social practices is a dangerous symptom. If you do not get involved in the stereotypical activities every other “normal” human being follow every day, you are tagged as “anti-social”.
I know that the alienation most of us are suffering due to new technologies is affecting our society and the way we communicate with each other and in the long run this will bring problems we cannot even foresee right now. The fear for this lack of attention from those we love is affecting our coexistence and is disturbing us now in many other ways. Continue reading →
One of the best things of making up your mind to clean that spot in your home you have been neglecting for a long time is, that you might find many things that were lost and you never imagined you would find again and specially, in that place!
Once you decide to start taking things out that abandoned box, closet, cupboard, etc. You are surprised by all the things that were hidden there, the more you “explore” inside the more you will find and then, you begin to wish you had done this cleaning before.
After all the “useful” things you found, you cannot understand how you could procrastinate this cleansing for such a long time! Continue reading →
I know you have heard many times that we are all different. No matter how long we have lived in the same community, in the same house and even in the same family. We have a lot in common and yet, we are still different.
You might like to add sugar in your tea, I prefer a little more cream in it instead. You might prefer a bagel with it, I prefer a ring doughnut. You might like to talk about politics, I rather skip that subject.
We can be so different in so many aspects and yet, we can share a nice tea moment, each enjoying, at the same time, our own personal pleasures. Continue reading →
She saw me walking on the street and greeted me very effusively. “I wanted to so much to see you! I finally finished your book and I loved it! I am going to read it again!”
“But the problem is that I want to be able to do the things you talk about in the book, but I don’t think is as easy as it sounds” She complained.
I thanked her for reading one of my books and just told her: “I never said it was easy, nothing in that book is really easy. It is a process, everything worth it takes time. I am just sharing in my books my experiences and own ideas, but my main purpose is to encourage my readers to find their own answers and methods. We are all different and have different circumstances going on in our lives, but we are all in the same boat, so we can find common mind-sets and procedures to have a happy journey.” Was my reply. Continue reading →
“Yes, things were getting very difficult, I felt overwhelmed and every morning I tried to resist the alarm to get up because I just wanted to continue sleeping to avoid having to deal with all the mess I had created for myself”. He looked tired but with a new light in his eyes.
He had lost his company, his home, his marriage but luckily not the love of his children. So he was able to find a motivation to get out of the hole he had dug himself into.
“And what about you? Were you too dwelling in your comfort zone too long? He asked. Continue reading →
(Note: This is not my personal story, this is the story of a dear friend who now has a wonderful mansion outside London, he share this lesson with me and now I am sharing it with you as well. I hope we all can learn something useful from it)
I was so used to live in that house that the idea that I would leave it someday never crossed my mind. I had lived there since I was 5 years old. It was small but very comfortable and to my eyes it had everything I needed.