I was sceptical about a social experiment a friend of mine had told me about. So, I decided to try it myself.
The experiment consists in treating people exactly the same way they treat you, for example:
When someone asks you a question, you answer using exactly the same attitude, tone of voice, volume level and body language.
Despite the fact I was very sceptical at the beginning, after a few tries the results baffled me.
I didn’t have to gather a big sample to learn a very interesting fact of human nature. Continue reading
“I must be getting old”, I thought.
When I was younger I remember to feel bad about those grumpy old men who spend their whole time complaining about everything and everyone.
My grandmother used to say: “When I was your age, people were polite, we never disrespect others”. “Your generation knows not what manners are” and so on and so forth.
And now, I have become that old grumpy man who cannot believe his eyes and ears anymore. Continue reading
“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.”
― Margaret Thatcher
I have known good people who fight their whole life to reach a high place, whether in a company, the government, financial status, fame, etc.
Once they reach their goal and finally they have a little more power than usual, their personality suffer a dramatic shift and they no longer are the same person I once met.
Is it just me or nowadays we find “bosses” everywhere who are more concern on exercise their power on others than in getting good results for their company/institution/country etc? Continue reading