Have you noticed that when facing new circumstances, new situations like a new job, moving to a new house, a new relationship, etc. We react in many different ways?
Fear is the first feeling to jump into our heart. And sometimes that fear is the main reason because we reject change so much.
And it is understandable since change could be a very traumatic experience at first.
I remember when I was a child to be afraid of jumping into a swimming pool because my memory of the first contact with water at a different temperature was not very enjoyable. It took me a long time to slowly crawl into the pool and it was not a very pleasant event.
Of course once this “traumatic” experience was passed it was almost impossible to take me out of the pool, but to “convince” me to dive into it first thing in the morning was a very difficult task. Continue reading